Ever see an interaction and think âWow this is an amazingly teachable momentâ?
Recently, I was lurking on Reddit and found this video:
Readersâ digest version: black belt vs purple belt in the gi in an absolute division, purple looks a bit smaller and a bit younger, hard to tell size difference with the gis on but the video description reads â65kg Teenage Purple belt from the UK beats 85kg Black belt in a absolute class categoryâ. What happens after the ref raises the purple beltâs hand is a bit ugly, the black belt storms off the mat visibly irate. I donât know if Iâd define his behavior as ârageâ but there are a couple of critical elements to consider here.
Nobody likes to lose, but if youâre a black belt you should to some extent to set an example for your students and/or other lower belts watching the match. This is a sport that is marketed to children and as a result upper belts are treated with veneration.
If, as a black belt, you have the kind of reaction depicted in the video should you lose to a lower belt you may want to examine your ego. The fact is that in the athletic endeavor of jiu-jitsu competition lower belts can prevail over upper belts especially if the lower belt is in better shape, trains more frequently and/or is an active competitor.
Competition results donât necessarily convey knowledge either. Thereâs a good chance that the black belt in the video knows more than the purple belt, Thereâs also a possibility that in this match there was some sort of mitigating factor at play, maybe the black belt was ill, maybe the purple beltâs style matches up well against the black beltâsâ¦
None of this matters though because the way the black belt behaved after the match was over is the REAL story here. If you lose in competition at the very least behave civilly. Consider that your opponent was trying to win as hard as you and was in this case successful in that moment. Consider that good sportsmanship matters.
Belts donât separate human beings. Being a good grappler doesnât make you a good or bad person, itâs simply a skill that one can develop. However the more experienced a grappler is the more they have theoretically won and lost in competition and the more they SHOULD be able to handle each with grace and poise. I actually judge higher belts/more experienced practitioners more by how they handle if Iâm able to tap them out than anything else.
What do YOU think of the black beltsâ behavior in this video?